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QUOTE-->"LIFE'S JOURNEY IS NOT TO ARRIVE AT THE GRAVE SAFELY IN A WELL PERSERVED BODY, BUT RATHER TO SKID IN SIDEWAYS, TOTALLY WORN OUT, SHOUTING"HOLY SHIT WHAT A RIDE!"" I’m fed up with just saying things to seem sweet so here is the truth and I didn’t read this in a book or make it up it’s what I’ve concluded after 15 years of relationships good and bad. I will start out by saying I am a very nice person that’s just sick of all the bullshit in life. I want nothing more in life than to just fall in love, buy a house and have some kids. Not saying I’ve never been in love before but, that I don’t think ill ever fall in love again. Not just because every girl I meet turns out to be crazy, it’s just more complicated than that. Everyone has there definition of physical attraction in which always comes into play first for most cases. I don’t care how in love with someone’s personality you are unless you are physically attracted to them 100% it’ll never work. It also works the other way too and my point is unless your 100% about someone in all directions you might as well give up. I can usually gauge everything I need to know about a girl within two days of being around her a lot, give or take in some situations. I know from the past I am mostly attracted to medium-tall, relatively skinny but healthy, dark haired women. Breast or bumm size doesn’t matter at all to me I’ve been attracted to most all shapes and combos but, id rather some meat on the bum but, not on the who whos lol. Eye color doesn’t really matter but, I lean towards blue or green. Good teeth are a must they are one of the things I look for first. I HATE it when women smoke I think it’s a nasty habit that costs too much money plus it fucking stinks and destroys my lungs too. It also bothers me in the mental aspect that she is letting something control her in which is a sign of weakness to me. A great personality in a woman is a must I need someone that is strong minded but, open to compromise, someone that has direction in life but, is also willing to change coarse, someone that will be a loving mother but, has a mean streak to keep her kids in check, someone who loves to travel and be on the go but, still loves to lay and watch the stars or a few movies, someone who strives to be successful but, doesn’t complain when we’re broke and this list could go on forever… I hate arrogance, selfishness, grudge holders, insecurity, whining, girls who hit, antagonizers, LIARS, game players, beating around the bush, pessimists, and negativity of any kind. I am a very open minded person that is willing to give anyone a chance but, I know what I want and if you don’t have it I’m done and not as a friend but ill end a relationship quick at my first doubt because I don’t pretend or lead people on. My problem mostly seems to be that I’ll date a beautiful woman but she’ll end up crazy or ill date an average girl that’s cool but doesn’t hold my interest physically. There are many variations of how I feel depending on the situation and trust me I know nothing is as cut and dry as a few sentences but, so far this is what sticks out in my life. Trust me I’m not just saying all this to be negative or to act like I’m giving up but, just to put it on the table to see how others feel. Maybe I’m wrong or maybe I’m right but, isn’t that what life’s about, just trying to figure all this complicated out. Where is that “ONE” that will evoke no question in my mind?
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